Lisa Louise Bundy

Life without friendship...
is like the dawn without the sun.
Life without friendship...
is like the sky without the moon
when the evening has begun.

Life without friendship...
is like a rose without rain.

Life without friendship...
just wouldn't be the same.

Life without friendship...
is like a ship without a sea.
Life without friendship...
just could not be
without a friend like you for me.

Debbie Allan (Friend) May 8, 2008

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Marion Lyttle-Emma May 1, 2008

Our memories build a special bridge
When loved ones have to part
To help us feel were with them still
And soothe a grieving heart
They span the years and warm our lives
Preserving ties that bind
Our memories build a special bridge
And bring us peace of mind

Debbie Allan (Friend) April 27, 2008

hey you

hi my love, we went into bournemouth last night for naomi's hen do, you would have loved it!
we had an amazing time but there's always someone missing, you!
we were all at kaths getting ready & i had an overwhelming feeling that someone had left the room when we were all chatting, im sure it was you as everyone was still there & i said to lauz about it at the time & she agreed, i hope it was, its nice to know your still sharing the good times with us all!
we all miss you so much especially when were actualy all together & we cant see you there!
dont forget the sunshine for nemz's wedding the same as you did for me & kelly!
love you so much, now & always, gnomie xxx

Gnomie (Best Friend) April 27, 2008

JULES, WHAT I THINK LISA LOU WOULD SAY TO YOU, OTHER THAN I LOVE YOU MUM. XXXXXX

My Mum she tells alot of lies,
She never did before,
But from now until she dies,
she'll tell a whole lot more

Ask my Mum how she is,
And because she can't explain,
She will tell a little lie,
Because she can't describe the pain,

Ask my Mum how she is,
She'll say i'm alright,
If thats the truth,then tell me,
Why does she cry at night'

Ask my Mum how she is,
She seems to cope so well,
She didn't have a choice you see,
Nor the strenghth to yell,

Ask my Mum how she is,
I'm fine i'm well i,m coping,
For gods sake Mum just tell the truth,
Just say your heart is broken,

She'll love me all her life,
I loved her all of mine,
But if you ask her how she is,
She'll lie and say i'm fine,

I am here in heaven,
I cannot hug from here,
If she lies to you don't listen,
Hug her and hold her near,

On the day we meet again,
We'll smile and i'll be bold,
I,ll say,'your lucky to get in here Mum'
With all the lies you told.
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Dawn Ferguson (friend of jules and shaun) April 27, 2008

God must have know there would be times we'd need a word of cheer,
Someone to praise a triumph or brush away a tear.
He must have known we'd need to share the joy of 'little things'
In order to appreciate the happiness life brings.
I think He knew our troubled hearts would sometimes throb with pain,
At trials and misfortunes, or goals we can't attain.
He knew we'd need the comfort of an understanding heart
To give us strength and courage to make a fresh, new start.
He knew we'd need companionship, unselfish....lasting....true,
And so God answered the heart's great need with Cherished Friends....like you!!

Debbie Allan (Friend) April 26, 2008

When a person you love passes away
Look to the night sky on a clear day.
The star that to you, appears to be bright,
Will be your loved one,
Looking upon you during the night.
The lights of heaven are what shows through
As your loved one watches all that you do.
When you feel lonely for the one that you love,
Look to the Heavens in the night sky above.

Debbie Allan (Friend) April 20, 2008

various

HEAVEN'S GROCERY STORE

I was walking down life's highway a long time ago
One day i saw a sign that read ' HEAVENS GROCERY STORE'
As i got a little closer, the door came wide open
And when I came to myself, I was standing inside.

I saw a host of ANGELS. ... who were standing everywhere,
one handed me a basked and said, My Child - shop with care.
Everything a human needed was in that grocery store.
And - all you could'nt carry you could come back the next day for more.

First I got some PATIENCE, LOVE was in the same row.
Further down was UNDERSTANDING: you need that everywhere you go.
I got a box or two of WISDOM, a bag or two of FAITH,
I couldnt miss the HOLY GHOST, for it was all over the place.
I stopped to get some strength
And ... courage to help me run life's race.

But then my basket was getting full
But I remembered I needed some GRACE.
I didnt forget SALVATION, for SALVATION it was free
So I tried to get enough of that to save both your and me.
Then I started up to the counter to pay my grocery bill,
For I thought I had everything to do the MASTER'S will.

As I went up the aisle, I saw PRAYER: and I just had to put that in,
For I knew when I stepped outside, I would run into sin.
PEACE and JOY were plentiful - they were there on the last shelf,
SONG and PRAISE were hanging near - so I just helped myself.

The I said to my angel, ' Now , how much do I owe?'
He smiled and said. ' Just take them everywhere you go.'
Again, I smiled and said, 'How much do I owe you?'
He smiled again and said

MY CHILD, GOD PAID YOUR BILL A LONG,LONG TIME AGO.


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YOU CAN SHED TEARS

You can shed tears that she is gone
Or you can SMILE because she lived

You can close your eyes and pray that she will come back
Or you can open your eyes and see all she has left

Your heart can be empty becuse you cant see her
Or you can be full of love you shared

You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday
Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday

You can remember her and only that she is gone
Or you can cherish her memory and let it LIVE ON

You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back
(Like personally i have done..... i have been mad, angry cross and just excuse the french the helling..... that my precious so young daughter was TAKEN TRAGICALLY AWAY FROM ME)
But i am trying................ trying so very hard.................
to smile
to try open my eyes
to love
and trying yes trying to go on.....................



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HOW LONG WILL IT TAKE TO GET OVER IT?

How long will it take to get over the feeling of sorrow?
A lifetime.

How long will I continue to feel guilty?
As long as it takes you to realize you did NOTHING WRONG.

How long will it take me to get over my anger?
As long as it will take you to stop blaming yourself and others, and try realize it was the combination of unpredictable happenings that occur in one's lifetime.

Why do some friends give such horrid advice?
To cover upr their own inability to handle the situation.

Will i ever be happy again and be able to laugh?
An emphatic YES

How Long is long?
As long as it takes for you to go through the process.
Each individual has his or her own timetable, but it is up to you to make the decision when to start healing........


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One more........ the last but not least for all my very very special GONE TO SOON FRIENDS whom have given love, care and support.....

Thank you...
Thank you .....


I FORGOT

I forgot what life is all about... I forgot what it meant to cry..
I forgot that pretending to be happy doesnt make you happy..
And pretending to be smart doesnt make you smart...
I forgot that you cant FORGET the past in fear of the future..
I forgot that you cant control falling in love... and you cant make yourself fall in loe....
I learned that it is okay to mess up and it is okay to ask for HELP .... and it is okay to fell like HELL.
I have learnt that sometimes the things you want MOST , you just CANT HAVE.
I learnt that the greatest thing in life is not the parties or the hook-ups.......
ITS THE FRIENDSHIPS which means taking chances......
I have learnt that the things we want to forget, are the things we need to talk about .....

SO, this is a THANK YOU FOR ALL MY FRIENDS - my GONE TOO SOON FRIENDS..... for ALWAYS BEING THERE

May God bless you all - May he Hold you tight and give you the strength that we dont have during our bereavement...
but seeing a message on a candle lit up - or a photo or a tribute........ THAT IS WHAT HELPS US ..... Yes .... that is what helps us get through the day....... through the week....

I wish you all and to all our angels a beautiful, peaceful weekend - chat again next FRIDAY....

Love to each and everyone of you
Ur much appreciated
Friend
Isabelle

Isabelle - Natassia Da Silva Mother (friend - passer by) April 11, 2008

I see tears fall down your face
When your thoughts have turned to me.
Just know that I’m in heaven,
With my Lord, who’s set me free.

No pain or sadness do I feel,
For God is by my side.
The beauty here in Heaven
Is now where I reside.

I know it’s hard for you to cope
For you can’t feel my touch.
But every moment, I can see
And love you very much.

When you are at your lowest
And feel you can’t go on,
Look towards the heavens
The light will be turned on.

Talk to me, just like you did
On earth when I was there.
You see, I’m not so far away …
Only as far as a prayer.

And when it’s time for you to join
Me up in Heaven above.
It’s then that you will realize,
The Golden Place of love.

For here there is no sadness,
Just everlasting light.
Someday we will be joined again,
When it’s time to take your flight.

Debbie Allan (Friend) April 10, 2008

hi jules and shaun,
just got back from pembrokshire, had a good time and won a rite wadd of notes on sat at the grand national.
rob backed the winner 10 each way and got 108 quid and i ad a fiver each way on slim pickings and 2.50 each way on snowy morning n i got just over 40 quid, so not a bad day at all.
rob said it a good job that you never gave us a tip else we would of lost lol.
well hope you both doing ok, i had more shocking news. the prison have agreed to jamie being put into an open prison and he is allowed out 3 or 4 days a week to look for work. im gutted he only done 13 months in prison it stinks.
my local paper doing another story on thursday i just cant believe that he gunna be walking the streets in the next couple of weeks,
i just need to get away from here quick or i mite do something drastic to him and ill be the one behind bars.
love to you both as always dawn. xxxxxxxx

Dawn Ferguson April 8, 2008